We’re glad you’ve decided to use this valuable educational tool. To ensure that you, and the other participants in the chat room, get the most out of your experience we have established a few simple guidelines. If you’ll follow these simple rules you’ll soon find that Real Love Chat Rooms are a safe, fun, and educational place to visit. Your use of these chat rooms constitutes an acceptance of the following rules.

Guidelines for Efficient Use

1. In the Real Love Groups Online rooms, your messages will immediately be displayed in the chat room for all to read.
2. The Ask a Coach chat rooms are only active when a Real Love Coach—also called a ‘Moderator’—is present.
3. In Ask a Coach chat rooms we follow the First Rule of Seeing—“The first person to speak is the speaker.” (To learn more about the Rules of Seeing read Real Love—The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships or watch The Essentials of Real Love online seminar.) The Moderator will be the primary person responding to the speaker, but other participants can also make relevant and helpful comments.
4. When the Moderator is through addressing the current issue he will either ask if someone else would like to ask a question, or he will select a new question or topic from among the previous postings.
5. If your question is not immediately answered, please be patient. If, after several minutes you feel that the Moderator has forgotten about you, please send her a gentle reminder or repetition of your question. Our goal is to provide all of our Members with the opportunity to chat with a Coach, but the number of participants in a room at any given time will make that impossible on occasion. As an alternative during busy times and when the Ask a Coach rooms are simply unavailable, the Real Love Groups Online rooms are always open and provide a valuable support community. We encourage you to participate as often as you would like.
6. During Video Chat with Greg, Dr. Baer will try to address as many comments and questions as possible. Due to time constraints not everyone will be able to receive Greg's personal attention. Please continue to watch Video Chat and we'll try to address your personal concerns. You can also send Greg an email in advance at askgreg@reallove.com.

Community Rules
The following conduct is not allowed in our chat rooms:

Offensive Material -Users may not transmit or encourage others to transmit material or links to material considered patently offensive in nature. This includes, but is not limited to using vulgar, profane, or sexually explicit language; using race, religion, sexual orientation, culture, ethnicity, handicap, nationality, or gender as a means of insult; using threatening, harassing, defamatory, hate-speech, or libelous language; and posting, requesting, or otherwise sharing material considered pornographic, obscene, graphic, or hate speech.

Vulgar language or substitutes for such—No Profanity. No vulgar or sexual language or references to such. This will result in banning with or without warning.

Flaming - Communications clearly insulting other users, individually or as a group, directly or indirectly, are not allowed. This includes, but is not limited to: name-calling; direct insults and orders; insinuations; or insults towards family ("Your mom...").

Illegal activity - Communications that violate or incite others to violate the law are not allowed. This includes, but is not limited to, asking for or providing: illegal copies of copyrighted software; methods of circumventing copyright protection; illegal copies of copyrighted music, movies, videos, or any other type of media; or reprints of material from other web sites.

Advertising - Messages that clearly advertise a service or product are not allowed. This includes, but is not limited to: unsolicited commercial or personal web site advertisements; :For-Sale/For-Trade/For-Auction/Wanted: notices; "Make Money Fast" scams, chain letters, and pyramid schemes; or any referrer-ID based sites (including both games and free-item marketing sites). . Users are allowed to include their web site address in a signature, request comments on their personal site in a social setting, or provide, only once, an interesting or relevant link to another site.

Off-topic postings - The main purpose of the message boards and chat rooms within the Service is to provide discussion forums and opportunities for Real Love principles, relationships, and personal growth. Topicality is expected and will be enforced in all chat rooms not noted as purely social in nature.

Disruptive Behavior - Behavior that disrupts the Service for other users, intentional or not, are prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to: messages or topic titles that force browsers to scroll horizontally; large blank or content-free messages; "bumping" multiple older topics (posting in them well after the last post); posting multiple identical or near-identical messages or topics, including "fad" posts or topics; intentionally hard-to-read topic titles or posts (i.e. ALL CAPS, AlTeRnAtE cApS, no spaces, no or excessive punctuation); posting multiple hard-to-read or nonsensical messages in a single or multiple topics; posting large ASCII art (except in social topics specifically calling for it); or post counting (i.e. "First", "100th Post"). Shouting or otherwise creating noise in an active voice channel is considered disruptive behavior.

Impersonation - Impersonating other users by creating and/or using a user account with a name clearly intended to impersonate, mock, or antagonize another user, or otherwise falsely claiming to be another member is strictly prohibited.

Harassment/Stalking/Privacy - Continual harassing behavior directed towards a certain individual or group with the intent of creating an intimidating, offensive, or hostile environment on the Service, with or without use of explicit or implicit threats is strictly prohibited. Posting contact or other private information of any person (Service user or not) is also prohibited.

Flooding, Invading, and Board Wars - Flooding a board or chat room with multiple disruptive topics or messages; invading another board (flooding a board as a group with multiple topics or messages); instigating, participating in, or retaliating in an invasion of a message board or any other online service; announcing or inciting a "war" or any conflict with the regular members of another board.

Chat LIVE with Greg every Tuesday at 9 PM Eastern. Take advantage of this unique opportunity to ask the burning questions that can only be answered with the principles of Real Love. Learn to look at the world through the calming influence of Real Love and achieve a brand-new level of happiness through your new-found peace and confidence.

The Video Chat video stream is only active during pre-scheduled chat sessions.
The weekly session is currently held every Tuesday at 9 PM EASTERN.

You can submit your question in advance at askgreg@reallove.com. This will increase the likelihood that your question will be answered.

We look forward to seeing you there.